What is My Conflict Management Style?


To complete this questionnaire, consider your response to situations of disagreement and conflict. Think of a typical conflict situation in your life, and recall how you generally respond when the conflict happens.

Please note:
There are no “right” or “wrong” answers. The results should be used for your reflection and to start a conversation about the differet ways to respond to conflict.
Once you have completed the questionnaire you will see your results. Please print your results page.

Directions: Each statement below describes an approach to managing conflict. Please read each statement carefully and rate on a scale of 1 to 4 indicating how likely you are to use this approach.
1 = Rarely 2 = Sometimes 3 = Often 4 = Always

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Your first response is usually best. Answer the statements indicating how you would behave not how you think you should behave.



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